There is this pervasive social message that intimate attraction and arousal work exactly the same way for everybody and that, you should want sex all the time if you are a sexual person. I do not think that is real after all.
You’ll find nothing incorrect with being asexual plus in all sincerity metafilter’s aversion to individuals idenitfying this way has constantly miffed me personally, as in the event that you chose to phone your self asexual would somehow alter who you really are as someone or the way you feel or the method that you connect to people. (hint it will not. (more…)